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First things first, when I say it's okay to be selfish I do not mean forget about others and their feelings completely. Now that is out of the way, What do I mean by being selfish?

Let me rephrase that from selfish to self-full. Personally I have discovered that when I want to make a decision or take a risk the thoughts, "what will people think?" or "Does this seem like me?" run through my mind. I think it is time that we all forget about other people specially when is has to do with one's well-being. 

Don't forget it is your life and at the end of the day you will be the one that has to live with the decisions you make or lack of. To be able to utterly and completely indulged in yourself is a gift. Again, I am not saying to be self obsessed although I am saying take time out to treat yourself. Some "me time" is great to keep your sanity. 

self-full things to do:

Eat a whole pizza by yourselfBinge-watch a show from beginning to endListen to music in complete darknessTake a whole weekend to yourselfNapWrite, Thoughts, Dream, ExperienceCook, Paint your nailsWatch pointless animal videosLaughLook at old pictures, ReminisceGive yourself a facialUnplug from social mediaBake

most importantly own yourself and enjoy being selfish-full


  1. Totally understand what you mean by selfish. A little me-time is always great!

    The Style Boro

  2. I really love this! I enjoy my alone the point where I sometimes feel like there's something wrong with me. Funny thing is, I also love people. I'm the girl who can start up a conversation with anyone or leave an event with a bunch of new friends...but at the same time, I like my peace. I like all nighters on Tumblr, watching back to back YouTube videos, reading long novels, finding new music. Because I give others so much of my time, it's only right I reward myself. Self-full....I like that word!

    Thy Bliss Calls

  3. So great Blog!! congrats :)


  4. Oh this is wonderful! And with such a good message! Because at the end of the day nobody is there for you like yourself

    XO Sahra
    Que Sera Sahra

  5. Love this post! well said x

  6. This is so true! Sometime I get too concerned about what others may think or say, and it's my life, I have to live it the way that makes me happy. Great post!
    Obsessed Fashion Blog

  7. YOU READ MY MIND! Selfish has such a bad feeling attached to it, and thank you for giving it a fresh and friendly meaning to it PUBLICLY!
    Joua to the Rescue

  8. I think sometimes it is good to just treat yourself right and not worry too much about what other people think. Also, the items you listed are some of my favorite "selfish" activities :)


  9. I love this! I tend to be cautious of what other people will think which turns out me being miserable. Now I am stepping out and taking possession of my life and choices. Btw, my name is Gail. Hope we could be friends. :)

  10. hahaha yes!


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